I Can't or The Glass is half empty

I am so tired of the words I can't. What I want to hear is how can I? Its absoultly amazeing the way people rationalize away things when they don't really want to do them but instead of just saying they don't they come up with reasons why they can't. Everyone is guilty of it they make up white lies even as excuses becouse they just don't want to do whatever. The fact is if someone really wants to do something they find a way to make it happen. So the next time instead of saying I can't say how can I? Or perhaps instead of it can't be done, figure out how it can be done. The brain is a funny thing if you ask it a question it will work on it subconciousely untill it finds a answer. I can't is only slightly less annoying then "there is nothing I can do about it" Better to say "What can I do to help? How can I change things" if it matters to you, you will find a way but don't be stumped by what seems to be impossible obsticals. Want to travel, don't have money? You could always search for rides on craigs list and kijji, you could stick out your thumb. Need somewhere to stay, tent, or use a tarp if you can't afford one or visit some couchsurfing sites that help people who are traveling find crash space. The big thing is how much do you want to do something and what are you willing to do to acomplish it. The more you want something the more you are willing to do to reach your goal. Nothing is impossible if you set your mind to it. So set your mind to it instead of I can'ting! Start How Can I's? Today!